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REMEMBER! Sexual assault is NOT your fault. Nothing you did, said, wore, drank or smoked made someone sexually assault you. 1 in 4 Canadian women is sexually assaulted during their lifetime. The highest incidence of sexual assault involves young women of university age. |
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Your SAFETY is the first, most important thing to think about after sexual assault. You can immediately call 911 and say “I’ve been sexually assaulted.” If the assailant is still nearby and threatening or aggressive, this may be the best way to CARE for yourself immediately after the assault. You can also call 911 if you feel like you have been injured or need emergency medical attention for any reason. If you are at your residence or home, lock the door. If you are away from your residence or home, get to a safe place.
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SHARE what has happened to you with someone you trust. Call a trusted friend, family member, res staff or SHARE at 540-7427. If you SHARE, it is the best way to CARE for yourself. Sharing plays an essential role in the recovery and healing process after sexual assault. |
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If you really don’t know what to do and find it hard to take in a lot of information right now, SHARE can help. All SHARE services are confidential and victim- driven. You will not be coaxed, convinced or in any way forced to do anything. You can ask the same questions as often as you need to.
SHARE is here to CARE |
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It is important to remember that there is no right or wrong way to feel after a sexual assault. Some common reactions are shame, anger, fear, shock, denial (it was no big deal), flashbacks, embarrassment and powerlessness. How YOU feel is OK. This is about you. This is not about how anyone else thinks you should be or feel..
You may want to talk to someone without giving your name. SHARE will listen. You can also get completely anonymous, caring, supportive and confidential advice by calling a helpline. The Fredericton Sexual Assault Crisis Line is 506 454 0437 (call collect). You can also call the CHIMO provincial helpline at 1-800-667-5005 (toll free). |
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Many SOLUTIONS exist to help you after sexual assault. |
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One solution is seeking emergency medical treatment. SHARE will accompany any student to the hospital where you can be checked and treated for injuries, STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and pregnancy. You may also be offered an opportunity to make a report to police. If you do involve the police, hospital staff can collect evidence during your medical examination. |
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SACKVILLE MEMORIAL HOSPITAL |
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Your HEALTH MATTERS after sexual assault. Victims of sexual assault may seek trauma/emergency services at the Sackville Memorial Hospital at the corner of Main Street and Queen’s Road.
In most cases, sexual assault victims presenting at Sackville who do not need immediate treatment for injuries will be referred to the Moncton City Hospital to receive services from the Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) programme. http://www.serha.ca/moncton_hospital/subsections/trauma_emerg_icu/htm/english/sane.htm YOU may choose whether to accept this option or not. You can still get an examination for injuries, STI testing and the morning after pill at Sackville emergency. |
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SANE (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) Programme at MONCTON CITY HOSPITAL |
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http://www.serha.ca/moncton_hospital/subsections/trauma_emerg_icu/htm/english/sane.htm offers confidential, nurse-based care that ensures consistent, caring, uninterrupted and supportive treatment delivery. All procedures are carried out with the utmost privacy, dignity and respect. The SANE programme partners with the community to help address issues related to sexual assault. Partners include Mount A’s SHARE programme, Mount A’s Nurse Educator, RCMP, Fredericton Sexual Assault Centre, Victim Services and others. |
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MTA STUDENT HEALTH CENTRE |
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A confidential, caring approach to examination for injury, STI testing and pregnancy prevention treatment is also available at the Mount A Student Health Centre. Call SHARE at 540-7427 for help getting an appointment, or call the receptionist at 364-2163. |
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LEGAL SOLUTIONS |
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POLICE
If you wish to report through the police you may call 911 or, during business hours, 533-5151 or 1-800-665-6663. SHARE can accompany you to the police station or arrange to have a female officer meet you at a location of your choosing. |
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UNIVERSITY JUDICIAL
If you wish to make a complaint of sexual assault against another member of the Mount Allison community SHARE can help. You can call the office at 364-2613 or email harassment@mta.ca. You can also get information and advice about how to make a complaint of sexual assault through the Dean of Students Office 364-2255. See the Mount A Sexual Harassment Policy or a summary of the policy, prepared by a student FOR students in the Policies and Procedures section of the SHARE website. |
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SUPPORT
At any point after a sexual assault it is a good idea to get support from a Personal Counsellor. To make an appointment, call Student Life at 364-2255. SHARE can also help you get access to counselling services. |